Midlife Crisis

U have trouble waking up for work.
U have no motivation going to work.
U do just enough to keep from being fired.
U can't wait for the day to end.
U find work meaningless and no more satisfying.
U feeling for once your work felt enthusiastic...but now u don't even believe in the product or your employer anymore.

CHANGE

Unchanged leaders equals unchanged organisations!

1. We should not change just enough to get away from problems, but should change enough to solve them.

2. We should not change situation to improve our lives, but instead we should change our lives to improve our situation.



3. We cannot do the same thing over again and expect different result; when you want something you never had, you have to do something you never had done.

4. Leaders have to change first, because they suppose to lead. You better change when you see the light, because if you only change when u feel the heat, then its too late.

5. You will have to pay the immediate price of change, or else you will pay the ultimate price if you don't.

6. We should not see change as something hurtful, rather it should be taken as a helpful thing.

7. We cannot become what we need to be by remaining what we are.

DECIDE now to change; when your change is successful,
you will look back at it and call it GROWTH.

Namelogy

Letters of the Name Really do have Meaning! Each letter in your name has it's own specific meaning. Taken in combination, the letters give us strength and tenacity to become great leaders or the ability to follow those in command.
A person's name may be the single most important guiding force in their life. With a name, a person is an individual. They are someone who has to be reckoned with; no longer a body holding space but a person who requires attention.
Some names give more authority to a person. Other names allow a person to be more benign. They can be happy with living life and letting others take responsibility for the world and its happenings.
There are even names, which make its wearer more suspectible to whining because things never go their way. Wearing their feelings on their shoulders, they assume nothing will ever go right for them. We are the sum total of our names. The surname is very important in our life but the given name at birth is of equal or more importance.
When the first, middle and last name combine, it can make a very strong impression on the person wearing the name.

Numerology
is the study of the occult meaning of Numbers and alphabets and their influence on human lives. It all starts with your name and birth date. They are the database which provides an insight in your life . In Numerology Numeric Values are assigned to your Name. By Adding these numbers along with a multitude of combinations predictions and suggestions are made to your name to bring forth positive energy and enhanced success.

MODERN DAY NUMEROLOGY IS EFFECTIVELY USED BY SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE IN A MAGNITUDE OF WAYS

PERSONAL NAME CHANGE : Numerology is very effective to charge up the vibrations in your name thus providing you with more positive energy.

NEW BORN BABY NAMES : If the New born babies are given names as per numerology this ensures positive vibrations for the baby right from the start and throughout his /her lifetime.

PRODUCT BRAND NAME :Many corporate's launch new products which are Named in accordance with the principles of Numerology thus ensuring better chances of SUCCESS.

AND ALSO FOR THE FOLLOWING NAMES :

NAME OF THE COMPANY / NAME OF THE MOVIE/ SERIALS / NAME OF A NEWLY CONSTRUCTED BUILDING OR BUNGALOW . ETC.
Purchase What's in a Name Today and learn more about your name meaning.

Love of a Lifetime

The past fades away from present and return not
The scarlet leaves dwell within the dusts
What had begun yields no change in the end
The vagabond you still are beyond the clouds



(chorus)
Dukkha.... churns love and vise
It seems futile to escape this karmic fate
Connected but can't remain in contact
Maybe I should believe this is but fate

(end chorus)
Lover left for eternity [fate dissipates]
I alone sit in silence, eyes casting away [may it continue tomorrow]
Flower may wither [I wish]
But it shall bloom [for you]
The love of my life seems [waiting]
Beyond the clouds [I hope]

literary translation ......

Anger Management

I have been following wrestling shows since young. Beginning with WWF then WCW towards WWE. Lately I have stopped almost 99% of it since realising it has not contribute much value except for some scripted entertainment.

Instead, I discovered MMA; which I first got to know way back in '94. Mixed Martial Art is a sport where two professionally trained fighter engaged in a ring without being scripted of the outcome. Sometimes a win may be straight from a knock-out punch or some body-locks which forced the opponent to quit in the match.

I am so into MMA till at one time, I joined a trial session of Brazilian Jujitsu. Sad to say it was just too tough for old-man like me. What the academy teach is not so much of how to fight, but its more like how to manage a fight.

At times, running away may be just a solution rather than direct confrontations. I have been controlling my temper so much that I learned it has helped me to resolve many situations. I have know many others who expressed anger in discussions usually ended up sour not to mentioned not getting things done.

Life is stressful enough....its no point adding aggressions to it.

Overcoming Stress

I read an article about stress by Alan Fairweather the other day.

Alan said, In any situation, there will always be "the way I see it",
"the way you see it" and "the way it is".
For example, if I have to meet someone, I am always on time (the way I see it).
Some people who meet me always turn up late (the way they see it).
It's up to me to make allowances for this when making an arrangement to meet these people ( the way it is).

Dealing with people can be extremely stressful. Other people don't see things the way you or I do and they might never do. Even my closest friends and the person I share my life with, still see the world differently from me. Getting stressed is bad for me and it doesn't change the situation.

The point is, we are all in a world of dealing with people everyday;
and every human being is different. So, don't let anyone "stress you out".
Just remember, they see the world in a different way.

RIP : Chin Boon Jiin

We talked about life around 2 months ago.
He said that he has a vision of doing go-kart business.
On 4 Oct 2008, he passed away due to a road accident in Damasara Jaya area. He's car skidded then apparently run over by an on coming car.



I was at the wake ceremony. The family arranged grand-scale prayers.
Everyone was so silently sad......
After cremation today; some of the ashes will be kept in
Tibet and part of it in Kepong.
He was only 19 years old.

Rest in Peace.